There’s no denying that prostate massage benefits are real. But if you’re like most men, you’re probably skeptical about giving it a try. There’s a lot of stigma around putting things in your butt and enjoying it, but there are truly amazing benefits to having your prostate massaged.
In this post, I’m going to list 6 reasons why you should try prostate massage today. Trust me, once you experience prostate massage benefits as well as prostate massage pleasure, you’ll be hooked for life.
So what are you waiting for? Scroll down and find out just how amazing prostate massages are!
Also, I shouldn’t have to say this, but this post is not to be misconstrued for medical advice. If you’re having pain or other issues, go see a doctor, please!
What Is Prostate Massage?
I’ve been doing prostate massage for so long, that I almost can’t remember the first time I gave one. It was back when I first started as a pro domme, sometime between late 2011 and early 2012. A client asked me if I’d ever given one before, and when I said “no”, he happily instructed me.
At the time, I had no idea what i was doing and was nervous that I’d end up causing more pain than pleasure, but I was willing to give it a shot. We had an absolutely amazing time together, and seeing what kind of pleasure prostate massage could bring was truly a turn-on for me.
Having so much control over someone’s pleasure with such slight movement really excited me. It’s an excitement that’s never gone away!
Now, after years of experience with prostate massage, I can say that it’s probably the one thing I recommend everyone with a prostate tries at least once. Not only does it feel amazing (so I’m told), but it’s also got a bunch of health benefits that I never would have guessed.
If you’re curious about trying prostate massage, then keep reading – I’m going to list six reasons why you should give it a go.
1. The Power of Relaxation
Most people don’t realize it, but in order to really enjoy a prostate massage, you have to learn to really relax. Deep breathing and letting all of your muscles go slack are really important parts of the whole process. If its your first time receiving a prostate massage, it’s going to take some time for you to get relaxed. Generally, I like to start off with a traditional body rub so we can get to know one another. It really helps break the ice and relieve the first-time jitters.
And truthfully, let’s be real. When you’re stressed, your asshole is tight. There’s nothing worse than trying to work with a tight asshole that just won’t relax, and cutting off circulation in my fingers isn’t fun for me either. So taking our time and getting you to relax both mentally and physically is really important!
After the fact, most report that they sleep better than they’ve slept in years the night after a prostate massage. When the prostate is stimulated, it releases toxins and tensions that have built up over time. This, in turn, can improve your overall health and well-being. Releasing pent up stress is always good for our health, after all.
2. Improved Sexual Performance
I mean, who doesn’t want to have improved stamina and prowess in bed? Sounds like a pretty sweet deal, doesn’t it? Prostate massage is definitely one way to improve your stamina, and I’ll explain why.
After you cum, there’s a period of time afterwards called your refractory period. Essentially, this is the length of time you experience between erections/orgasms. When men are younger, their refractory periods are short—sometimes they’re so short, they basically don’t exist. It’s that whole “Energizer Rabbit” phenomenon. As men age, their refractory periods get longer and longer, meaning that the time it takes to get hard after an orgasm lengthens to the point where you may only be able to get hard and have an orgasm once every several hours, if not longer.
Fortunately, you can change that!
Prostate massage purportedly helps to shorten your refractory period, meaning you’ll be able to get hard again faster after you orgasm. It takes time and a bit of training, but I’ve actually done this for several clients over the years! We’ve worked on it together, and they’ve reported a lot of success in their personal lives.
3. Bladder Control and Relief From Urine Retention
In my experience as a prostate massage provider, I’ve seen how releasing the built-up tension in the prostate can lead to improved bladder control. In short, it can make it easier to pee — and not just any pee.
Better urinary flow means a bigger stream and fewer trips to the bathroom at night. Who knew that pressing a few magic buttons (on your prostate) could help you skip having to run around like a crazy person in your dreams — or worse — waking up with sore legs from standing up too many times?
Prostate massage might just be the answer to all of those bathroom headaches, giving you back some of that precious time we devote to squeezing out every last drop.
4. Prostate Massage Benefit: Pain Relief
Prostate massage is always my go-to for men who suffer with pain issues. Whether you’re dealing with chronic or acute pain, prostate massage can be a great way to manage it naturally. Not only can it help reduce inflammation, but it also improves blood circulation as well as the functioning of the pelvic muscles.
During a prostate massage, I can target pain-causing areas in the pelvic area that may otherwise go unnoticed. With this targeted pressure, I can release tension and alleviate discomfort in your lower belly. This freedom from pain is often immediate and can often last for several hours post massage.
5. Prostate Massage Benefits and Cancer Prevention
Believe it or not, prostate massage might even help prevent prostate cancer. While not thoroughly researched, there is some research that exists that shows alleviating chronic prostatitis and inflammation of the prostate can help reduce instances of prostate cancer. That’s why I always advise my clients to book regular prostate massages. Fun and health? Sign me up!
6. Learning New Ways to Experience Pleasure
Prostate massage is often a gateway into other anally focused pleasure for men. Men have a significantly larger number of nerve endings that experience pleasure in and around their anus and perineum, so anal stimulation scientifically feels more pleasurable for men. Evolution saw fit to put one of your most sexually sensitive areas up your ass, so I don’t see any reason not to fuck around and find out what all the hype is about!
Prostate massage also doesn’t require your dick be involved. Like, at all. You can experience immense pleasure solely from prostate massage and anal penetration with some training and patience. So if you experience erectile dysfunction or simply want to de-emphasize your dick in a sexual experience, prostate massage is a great option! You’d be amazed at just how erotic and sensual a sexual experience can be when you start to truly pay attention to other parts of your body that can (and do) receive pleasure (chastity training, nipple play, or strap-on, anyone)!
So there you have it, my top 6 reasons why you should try prostate massage as well as prostate massage benefits. I hope I’ve convinced you to at least give it a try. And if you’re in the Chicago area, I hope you’ll come see me for a session. I promise you won’t regret it!