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When was the moment you realized that “ordinary” wasn’t a word that would ever describe your passions? Those desires that quicken your pulse, redden your cheeks, and dilate your pupils, among other things— I know them well. I share in your proclivities, but from the opposite side of the spectrum, you see.
I’ve been pursuing my dominant tendencies since the tender age of 18, and decided to pursue pleasure professionally as a Mistress and Dominatrix starting at at the end of my 26th year. You might say my desires have become more specific as I’ve aged, and I have a feeling yours may have as well. It’s how I became a strap-on, pegging, and anal play expert.
It can be difficult to find the time and space to indulge ourselves in what we need the most. To indulge in those outlets that keep us balanced and allow our personal pressure valves to be released. I’d guess you’re so driven in other areas of life that you often neglect to carve out space and time for yourself and your desires. The ache you feel from not having what you so clearly need gets overwhelming, doesn’t it? The sweet relief that comes from not having control for some; the excitement in having a play partner who doesn’t have to feign interest for others.
Believe me, I know how hard it is to cultivate relationships where you can openly express yourself and ask for what you so desperately crave. It’s hard to be vulnerable with those who may not be interested, and sometimes terrifying to reveal your deepest, most taboo desires to those closest to you.
Perhaps your home life is in most ways wonderful, but you can’t seem to scratch this particular itch within those confines. Maybe you keep these desires a secret for yourself, and can only indulge them separately.
If I’ve struck a chord or hit a nerve, then you’ve found yourself in the right place.
After a few years of being a professional mistress and dominatrix, I ventured to bend the definition of what it meant to be dominant. I never truly identified as a dominatrix— it’s a word that was often too loaded with formality for my tastes.
What I am is a Top, a Fetishist, a strap-on, anal play, and pegging expert. I’m an indulgent BBW hedonist who loves to have her body worshiped in all the ways you want to worship. What this means for you is that I’m playfully and powerfully in charge, and know exactly what it takes to push you over pleasure’s edge.
Whether you’re a novice who’s just learned the pleasures of anal play, a fellow hedonist who loves to be overtaken by a powerful and creative woman, or an expert who can take even the biggest Bad Dragon toys, I’m here to help you explore and push your boundaries.
Discover what lies on the other side of your edge.
What I’m known for is anal play of all sorts—strap-on, pegging, fisting, anal stretching, you get the idea. But I also have a penchant for other areas of BDSM and kinky exploration! Click the headings below to find out more.
I didn’t become Chicago’s Anal Expert for nothing! I love showing people the wonder that is anal play. Anal stretching, putting you in my sling, you name it. This goes along with strap-on/pegging/fisting, and is normally how I warm you up.
I love having every inch of me adored, and I expect you to take some initiative in getting the job done. Whether its sucking my toes or giving me a full body massage, you’ll be able to worship my entire body fully and properly.
Light bondage, cuffs, light rope and leather straps are where my interests lie. I much prefer functional restraint over predicament bondage or shibari, neither of which I offer.
Want a woman to take control and show you exactly what she wants from you? Allow me to show you exactly what I like. I’ll even tell you when you’re fucking it up.
Or maybe you want to be teased and denied since we both know you’re not actually good enough to experience the gift of my pussy.
Either way, both of these scenes are a blast for me and I welcome additional creativity!
Locking yourself away makes it easier to focus on other areas of your life that need attention. Giving me control of your orgasm takes that task off your hands quite literally.
I’m open to several different types of chastity arrangements, but personal betterment goals are my favorite.
There’s a sadist in me that doesn’t often get an opportunity to play, so if you’re into corporal punishment, be ready. Don’t worry about marks though—I’m well-trained and never play too roughly with my toys unless I have permission.
I have a large assortment of floggers, canes, paddles, and other disciplinary tools of the trade.
I absolutely adore spending time with you and a partner! I identify as bisexual and truly enjoy interactions with folks of all gender presentations. Want to learn some new kinky games to play the next time you’re on your own? Perhaps I’m the entertainment for the evening! Any way you slice it, I love couples and look forward to hearing from you!
Zap! Playing with electricity is a wholly different experience that can range from extremely pleasing to downright awful. It’s a favorite of mine, and I have a TENS unit, neon wand, and other fun toys to experiment with.
Self-explanatory, kind of. I’m fully comfortable engaging in intimacy on many different levels. Please let me know if this is something you want to experience once you’ve been screened.
There’s nothing like watching your fist get enveloped by an asshole while the person on the receiving end becomes my personal puppet! Whether you’re just learning or need someone with very large hands, I’m your Girl Friday.
Love burying your face into a thick, strong derriere? I’ll gladly take my seat. This can be done at any level of clothed-ness.
Are you looking to experiment with your gender presentation? Perhaps a makeover, or a fashion show is in order! Of course, none of this is necessary and you’re free to present however you’re most comfortable when you’re with me. I love cross-dressers as well!
Please do understand that unless the scene is very specific and to my liking, I do not participate in sissification that demeans women.
How cruel that evolution saw fit to put one of the most erogenous zones inside your butthole! Honestly though, its not cruel at all, and I can walk you through the pleasures of discovering prostate massage. If you’ve had this experience before, come try my fingers on for size!
Blindfolds, headphones, a zentai suit. A path towards losing one or more of your 5 senses. You’ll be amazed how your other senses fight to make up whats lost from the ones I’ll take away!
Domination without the pain; a general catch-all term for a style of domination that focuses on seduction, tease and denial, and more.
Let me take you to the edge and back.
Urethral dilation, or sounding, can be incredibly pleasurable! The urethra is full of very sensitive nerve endings, and I’ve got the tools to make you feel every single one.
Want to be bent over and taken advantage of? Love feeling a powerful woman between your legs, taking what belongs to her?
I love taking people of all genders and orientations for a journey into the pleasures of sensual strap-on. Whether we’re on the bed or in my sling, it’ll be an experience you won’t soon forget!
Tickling, for me, is normally such a joyful and powerful release. There’s nothing like being able to laugh until you cry!
Tickling can also evolve into tickle torture depending on how intense I decide to be.
There’s something very primal and feral about piss play. Open wide. Drink directly from me. Maybe I’ll make you take it from a glass first, or somewhere on your body before blessing your mouth.
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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.
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