Those desires that quicken your pulse, flush your cheeks, and dilate your pupils? I know them well. They're my desires, too.
I’m Erin Black. I’ll be your guide.
If you're like me, you're someone who truly enjoys pleasures that speak to your senses.
Some of my pleasures are simpler— fine fragrance applied in just the right amount, the feel of leather brushing against bare skin, a basement bar with the soft glow of candlelight to keep me company while I wait for a friend to join me.
Other pleasures are more indulgent— a staycation at the St. Regis, laying in bed until 10am, and getting room service breakfast before going for a massage.
While these types of experiences surely engage every sense, if you're like me, you've come to understand that your deeper, more complex desires aren't often attended to. Those desires that quicken your pulse, flush your cheeks, and dilate your pupils— I know them well. They're my desires, too.
The rush that comes with fulfilling a long-time fantasy and the nervous excitement that comes with trying something different and new? Personally, these are feelings that I simply can't be without, and feelings I want to indulge in with you.
I want to be your guide into places and pleasures both familiar and unknown. Someone you can trust with your deepest held wants and desires. I’m only concerned with leaving you better than when you found me.
If you find yourself thinking "this is exactly who I've been looking for", then it's obvious that you've been guided to the right place.
I've cultivated a life and chosen a path that's unconventional and unyielding, and I want to share this path with you. I want you to feel your cheeks redden and your heart start to race. I want you to experience the thrill of excitement and find out just how alive and free you can truly feel. I want you to let your guard down and take joy in experiencing your true self, free from shame.
Let me be your guide and share my expertise with you in walking down this road less traveled.
There's no one true way to shape our experience together, and you don’t have to know how to express what you’re looking for. I do often find that when expertise, safety, open-mindedness, and a willingness to trust are combined, we’ll both find ourselves having the time of our lives.
Practices + Interests
Let’s see if we’ll get along, shall we?
Learn about what I’m into (and what I’m not). Just because it’s listed doesn’t mean it has to be part of our time together. Remember — everything is about where our mutual interests overlap.
In Person + Online
In-Person Work
Private experiences in Chicago where you get to let go, even if just for a few hours. I also offer more expansive experiences for those wanting both social and playtime.
Online Work
Live digital sessions and self-led trainings for those looking to explore their desires digitally.
How to begin
When you’re ready to connect with me, the next steps are simple.
Begin with a brief inquiry so I can:
confirm our mutual interests
recommend an appropriate experience
outline what comes next
Don’t worry about having the finer details pinned down just yet. If you’re unsure to describe what you’re looking for, don’t worry — chances are I already know why you’re here.