Decorum

Green Bay BBW Escort

I love it when...

You pay attention!

Are you the type who wants a fool-proof map for making our date? Well, you’re in luck! I love giving thorough directions, and I love it even more when you follow them.

Green Bay BBW Escort

Ready to...

Make some plans?

To see me for the first time, you’ll have to fill out my booking form. You’ll be given my direct number, which is text-only, to confirm our date at a specific time. Once we’ve met, you’re welcome to contact me either via email or text to arrange future dates.

Please keep your language as mundane as possible. While I do expect you to divulge your kink interests to ensure we’re a match, I don’t expect you to send me an erotic story that you want to reenact (unless of course, you’ve sent me payment for my time and effort in reading your fantasy).

Please keep your correspondences with me sweet, brief, and to the point. If you’d like to write longer messages or text/chat prior to our time together, please inquire about texting or email packages.

Come on in...

It's so great to meet you!

I will confirm our date roughly 24 hours in advance via email and include specific instructions. Please confirm our date by the time I specify, as well as texting me by the time I indicate in the email. If you do not text me by the specified time, I consider the date cancelled. Once you’ve texted, I’ll send you my location with specific instructions for the day-of. Please follow these instructions to the letter.

I’m very, very gregarious, and I’ll want to give you a warm welcome! Please do tear yourself away momentarily to set out patronage and excuse yourself to the bathroom to freshen up. A shower and full toiletries are always available for you to use, and considering we’re in the middle of a pandemic, please take extra care with hand washing/showering once you arrive.

If we’re meeting in public, please slip my patronage into a book you think I’d enjoy reading or a greeting card.

Green Bay BBW Escort

I hate to see you go...

So don't leave so soon next time!

Out of respect for your personal and private life, I don’t reach out to you unless I have permission to do so (and that’s generally just for mailing list and touring purposes). I appreciate the same courtesy be shown to me, and that you only reach out should you want to make plans for a future date or are following up regarding something we discussed while together.

Green Bay BBW Escort

For those questions you're dying to ask...

an FAQ!

Folks who see me are generally successful, interesting, and intelligent folks over the age of 21 who enjoy unique experiences.

I don’t discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, religious affiliation, size, or ability.

If you require specific accommodations, please let me know. My domestic private incall is not wheelchair accessible and is up three flights of stairs. The dungeon spaces where I can host are more accommodating.

I adore spending time with all types of folks, including women, couples, trans folks, genderqueer/non-binary folks. If you’re a couple, both parties will need to submit screening information and there’s a 50% additional fee.

I am newbie-friendly, and don’t require references. You will, however, have to submit to a little more scrutiny via work verification information. It’s all relatively painless and easy, I promise.

To put it bluntly, no.

You don’t have to be kink-identified per se, but having an open mind an in interest in kink is definitely required to see me. These days I’m truly only interested in seeing folks who are into more taboo/kinky experiences and that’s where my passions really lie.

If you know enough to call yourself “vanilla” and have no interest in activities outside of that purview, there are tons of other providers out there that would be a better fit for you.

Nope, sure don’t. Like I said above, if you’re looking for an encounter that does not involve BDSM/Kink/Fetish themes, then we aren’t a match. There are tons of wonderful providers out there who offer what you’re looking for.

My availability is incredibly limited. Because of this, I release my availability at the beginning of each month via my newsletter.

If you’d like the opportunity to spend time together, sign up for my mailing list and get in touch when you see a date that works for you.

If you’d like to make yourself memorable, you’re welcome to fill out my screening form on my contact page. Sending along a token of appreciation from my wish list never hurts, either.

If we’re meeting one another privately and you prefer a domestic environment, I host incall in the Ravenswood neighborhood of Chicago. There’s ample free parking, and the neighborhood is safe. There are lots of toys and a few pieces of equipment, but it is a domestic space and by no means a fully equipped dungeon.

If you prefer a dungeon environment, I have access to two beautiful dungeon spaces that are centrally located in Chicago (10 and 20 minutes from downtown). There is an additional cost for dungeon rental of $100/hr.

I’m also happy to meet you for an outcall in The Loop/Downtown area, Evanston, Rosemont, Oak Park, or other equivalent area. My outcall fee is a flat $300 for up to an hour’s worth of travel. Anything outside of that is an additional cost. Outcall fees do not apply to dinner dates where we will be returning to my incall.

My favorite activities are pretty wide and varied, so here they are in no particular order:

  • Sensual domination
  • Strap-on/pegging
  • Prostate massage
  • Anal play/fisting (and i have the sling to prove it)
  • Chastity/Keyholding
  • Orgasm control/edging
  • Face sitting/smothering
  • Corporal punishment/impact play
  • Sensory deprivation/overload
  • Duos with Roxanne Dupri
  •  Light bondage/cuffs/collars
  • CBT
There’s a lot more that I enjoy, so if you don’t see what you’re looking for, feel free to message me.

Lots of things, honestly.

I’m an awesome tour guide and full of random knowledge. Pairing wine with our dinner comes a close second, and I’m an excellent cocktail picker and maker.

I’m not afraid to get into political conversations, but I’d suggest against it and will probably move the conversation elsewhere if our opinions fork too harshly.

Privately, I’m particularly good at getting you to relax, unwind, and leave the thinking portions of our time together to me. My body is soft and strong, and I love to be touched, massaged, and loved on. Mutual pleasure is paramount.

I’m adept at knowing what you want before you do, and my empathy runs deep. I’m always up for an adventure, and romantically taboo fun is right up my alley.

There are a few reasons you shouldn’t see me, the biggest one being that you’re not actually into women or women’s bodies. If you’re not into body hair, you’re better off elsewhere too.

If you’re looking for someone who’s a submissive in any form, I’m honestly not sure how you wound up here.

Most folks have limitations, and I’m no different. Below are activities I don’t engage in:

  • Vanilla or non-kinky experiences
  • Submitting
  • Bottoming 
  • Brown/roman/ruby showers
  • Unprotected vaginal/anal penetration
  • Humiliation surrounding body type, ethnicity, gender identity, or sexual orientation
  • Rudeness of any sort
  • Poor hygiene
  • Listening to you brag about how many homes you own/your private jet/yacht/etc. without being tipped/gifted appropriately.

Please don’t contact me if you’re unwilling to respect these boundaries.

I adore people who are gregarious, warm, friendly, and enjoy connecting during our time together. If you’re not into that, even in the slightest, I’d suggest you look for companionship elsewhere.

Generally speaking I do not.

Unless your session is specifically built around a specific clothing/material fetish (latex, stockings, lingerie, etc) I will wear something sexy and appropriate for the time we will be spending together.

If money is no object and you want me to wear something specific, I have a $300 wardrobe request fee. Any items I do not already own will have to be sponsored by you, too.

Cash is always preferred, but electronic payments via Venmo, CashApp, Zelle, or Bitcoin are happily accepted.

How kind of you! I do have a wish list, and it can be found here.

I am also preparing for a 500-mile bike ride. I’m funding a new bike for the venture, and also new gear! If you’d like to help out the cause, you can do so here.

I am, however, horribly practical and trying to fund a certificate program tuition, so in lieu of gifts, I’d by far appreciate tips. Tips can be given in cash during our date or via CashApp ($owlandamethyst) or Venmo (@owlandamethyst)

While neither are expected, they do certainly make you memorable.

I do indeed. All new friends are required to pay a 50% deposit via Venmo/Cashapp/Zelle. I no longer accept Paypal from new friends, and only accept it from current friends.

Should you cancel for any reason at any time, any deposit made is non-refundable. Should you cancel less than 6 days in advance,  the rest of my date fee is required at the time of cancellation.

I absolutely understand that life happens and that you may need to reschedule our time. If this is our first time meeting,  I offer one reschedule within the same month of the original scheduled date.  I’m very big on first impressions, and when I book with you, I arrange my schedule completely around our date.

My definition of rescheduling is “changing the day of our date with ample notice before the day of our date.” If you cancel our date and then wish to see me at a future unknown time, that is not a rescheduling; that ‘s a separate date that requires 50% deposit and remaining payment upon meeting, just like any other date.

I take my bookings very seriously and only see a select number of people per month. When I commit to time with you, I tell others “no”.

I am fully vaccinated and still wearing masks in crowded/enclosed spaces.

To be totally honest, I’m handling it just like most everyone else is—I’m wearing a mask, limiting my contact with the public, washing my hands a ton, and sanitizing surfaces in my incall more frequently. Being in this line of work means I have to be overly concerned with my health anyway, so my personal and professional protocol has been to get tested after any new partner. I’m also limiting the number of new folks I see in any given month.

Yep, you do. There’s no getting around it. If you’re not comfortable with my screening requirements, we aren’t a match and I suggest finding a companion who’s screening requirements are more in line with your needs.

Truth be told, I prefer our time be kept between us. I’m not a huge fan of review culture, and that’s reflected by the number of reviews I’ve collected over the past 10+ years.

I do have reviews listed on The Erotic Review, but you have to be a member to read all the details. If you want to submit a review, please let me know ahead of time so I know to expect it.

You've made it this far!

Most folks simply hope for what they want.
Not you, though. You get what you want.

My Spring Availability:

5-9pm, Monday-Friday
11-9pm Saturday and Sunday
I do require 72hr+ notice for all bookings.

I occasionally have daytime availability during the week! If you’re a current friend, please reach out via text message or direct email.

If we have not met before, please fill out my booking form for consideration.

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