October Dates and Fansly is Live!

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Scary stories, candlelight, bourbon on the rocks. Sound like a date?

Warm September evenings are starting to give way to cooler October nights filled with crisp air, the smell of leaves turning, and the sun fading to black much quicker than I remember.

Fall is 100% my favorite season for lots of reasons (shorts with turtlenecks, leather jackets, and moto boots, anyone?), but there’s something about cooler, longer nights that make me crave more decadent dalliances.

Those of you who’ve dined with me know that I love it all from cozy neighborhood joints to steakhouses and even a Michelin star or 2. Those of you who haven’t, I’m not entirely sure what you’re waiting for!

That being said, for the month of October, if you book a 3 hour cocktail date, I’ll make it a 4 hour dinner date. Just let me know any dietary restrictions or dining preferences, and I’ll do the rest (including making you wear panties and/or a plug, if you want to get the fun started at dinner 😏).

This offer only applies to my available dates in October.

For the month of October, my availability is as follows:

10/2, 11-9p

10/6, 5-9p

10/7, 5-9p

10/14, 5-9p

10/15, 11-9p

10/19, 5-9p

10/21, 5-9p

10/22, 11-9p

10/23, 11-9p

10/27, 5-9p

Please keep in mind, that I am only taking 6 bookings total for October! Once those bookings are filled, my books will be closed for the month.

Ready to book your rendezvous? Click here!

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FANSLY IS UP AND RUNNING!

I know, I’ve been saying it for months, but it’s finally true. Fansly is up and running! I’m slowly but surely getting everything over there uploaded, so bear with me while my slow internet connection chugs along at uploading content.

There’s a lot to go through over the last year or so, so expect to be entertained for at least a little while, right y’all?

I’ve also started three different subscription tiers based on the type of content you might be interested in seeing. Keep in mind that nothing I do is of a hardcore nature, and that I’m currently not taking custom requests. All of my content is based on my daily life, sessions, and goings about, so choose your own adventure!

Tier 1: For those who are looking to take a peek into my life. Cute selfies, photos from nature walks and working out, restaurants, plants, cats, and other shenanigans. Maybe a titty or two, who knows. Might even do some audio recordings and videos. $5 until Oct 31!

Tier 2: For those who are fetish/BDSM-curious or into the more sensual side of things. Think JOI videos, audio recordings, anal training videos, some thoughts on prostate massage and strap-on play, throat training, chastity, etc. These videos are generally solo- if they aren’t solo they’re probably going to be with my wife, Roxanne Dupri. $7 until Oct 31!

Tier3: This is where I really indulge my own fetishes. Think fisting, large insertions, ridiculously fun and large Bad Dragon, Pleasure Forge, and Mr. Hanky toys, other more intense BDSM themes, watersports, pig training, forced intox, queening, body worship, and more. Basically most anything goes here, but the only partnered videos will be BDSM-themed. $14 until Oct 31!

Every previous tier also includes the one above it, so if you purchase Tier 2, you’ll get everything in Tier 1 plus Tier 2. Tier 3 includes everything, and Tier 1 is just Tier 1. You can also simply follow my profile there and unlock posts as you wish!

If you’d rather not subscribe and just want to download content, that’s available too! You can head over to Niteflirt and check out my updated Goodies. These are taking a little longer to deal with, but I’ll be getting things uploaded and ready to go as they get approved!

Hopefully I’ll see you all over on Fansly or that you’ll be indulging in goodies soon enough.

Until then, enjoy Autumn if the weather changes where you are, and hopefully I’ll see some of you very, very soon.

xoxo

Erin

September Chicago Dates and NYC Tour Dates!

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Warm days and longer nights are made for indulgence.

August is quickly ending, and with that end comes the start of longer evenings that are made to be filled with debauchery!

To add to that debauchery, I’ve decided to extend my hour offering into September. I have 2 available bookings for 1 hour dates this month, so if you’ve been wanting to see me but haven’t had the chance!

My Chicago availability is as follows:

9/7, noon-3, or after 5pm

9/10, 11-9pm

9/11, 11-9pm

9/20, after 5pm

9/22, after 5pm

9/23, after 5pm

9/24, 11-9pm

9/26, 2-9pm

9/30, after 5pm

Please keep in mind, that I am only taking 5 bookings total for September! Once those bookings are filled, my books will be closed for the month.

I’ll be in NYC September 13-16, and available for duos with Roxanne Dupri! Prebooking is highly encouraged.


Book The Date

The Duo of a Lifetime

You know I only fuck with the best, and my wife Roxanne Dupri is absolutely the best partner both in life and in work!

We’re going to be in NYC together Sepetember 13-16, and then again in Chicago. We will have availability on 9/20 and 9/22! Prebooking is an absolute must as our duo slots get spoken for quickly.

One of our favorites refers to us as “good elf, bad elf”; you’ll need to see us together to find out which is which!

We always guarantee that you’ll leave having your mind and various other things blown, so to speak. Are you ready to have your limits stretched in the hottest way possible?

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Here’s to the kids heading back to school, longer nights, and darker desires,

Your NYC prostate massage expert,

Erin

ps- follow me on Twitter for brief updates, cancellation announcements, and a few other things. I’m not there often though so don’t expect a ton. 😉

PSS: OnlyFans is a cockblock

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS.

This includes lots of videos that I send via DM, too! It’s a bummer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get that content. 🙂

There’s a short list below of my current content available. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!


Blonde Kinky Tattooed Escort Erin Black’s August Availability

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August in Chicago

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Y'all brought the fire for July!

Ready for August?

Y’all really decided to fuck around and find out, and my July is gone for all but the following dates:

July 24: 3-9pm

July 29: 5-9pm

July 31: 11-9pm

Remember that getting what you want takes planning. I take a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago, and once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month.

I’m excited to be meeting new friends this month, and am truly looking forward to developing new relationships and stretching (heh) more boundaries!

August availability is a bit more limited than July’s (y’all are starting to get with the program and book well in advance), but I’m still offering a limited number of hour-long dates for $750 through the month of August. I may actually keep hour long dates permanently, but haven’t yet decided.

If I have cancellations through July, I’ll be sure to either reach out personally or post them on Twitter. I don’t post often there, but follow me if you’re looking for more last-minute bookings due to cancellations.

Erin’s August Availability for Chicago:

8/5: 5-9pm
8/6: 11a-9p
8/13-8/14: 11-9pm
8/17: 5-9pm
8/19: 5-9pm
8/20-21: 11-9pm
8/24-25: 5-9pm

For the month of August, I have room for 4 dates. Once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to prebook in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York in September!

Well, it looks like Roxanne Dupri and I are in for New York this fall! We will be available together or separately September 13-16th in Midtown, Manhattan.

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! I’ll also be reaching out to those of you I’ve seen in the past. 🙂

If you haven’t seen me before, you’ll want to fill out my booking form and introduce yourself. It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’m excited to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Back on the bird app, but not really.

I found an old-ass twitter account that I didn’t blow up, so I’m kind-of back on the bird app.

I have absolutely zero intention of actually being there, though. The only things that will be posted to this account are my available dates, the occasional photo/quip, and links to my newsletter subscription. I might post there more once ive got Fansly figured out more, but who knows.

I make no promises!

If you’d like to follow this new account, you can do so by clicking here.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

Ready to F*ck Around and Find Out? July Dates and More!

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I'm ready to bring the heat.

Are you ready to take it?

Today is officially the first day of summer! While the heat crept in earlier this month, there’s nothing like truly breaking a sweat when we’re playing together.

You know my energy during our time together is unmatched, and I love bringing you to the edge and back over and over again. You know that as a prostate massage expert Chicago, you’re going to have the most intense orgasms with me. Why not come experience something new and ask about my sling?

Been curious about seeing me, but can’t get away for longer than an hour? Starting July 1 through August 31, I’ll be giving those of you who haven’t seen me yet the chance to have a 1-hour Erin Black experience for $750.

I’d highly suggest taking advantage of this opportunity while I have some additional space in my schedule!

Erin’s July Availability:

July 1-3: 11am-9p

July 8: 5pm-9pm

July 9: 11am-9p

July 13-14: 5p-9p

July 17: 11a-9p

July 20: 5p-9p

July 24: 3p-9p

July 29-30: 5p-9p

July 31: 11am-9p

For the month of July, I’m taking 7 dates. Once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York This Summer? Not in this economy!

Well, the cost of flying right now is simply ridiculous, so my trip to NYC is going to be postponed until September.

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’d love to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Of course, my wife Roxanne Dupri will be joining! Book the duo- you know you want to!

OnlyFans for Mild, Fansly for Wild

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS. So from now on, posting to Onlyfans is going to consist of selfies and pretty mild content.

I’ve already been approved for a Fansly account, but I still need to set up the account fully. Hopefully I’ll have that done by the end of the month, and I’ll let you know once I do!

Follow me on Fansly!

In the meantime, here’s a short list of my current content. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!

Back on the bird app, kind of.

I found an old-ass twitter account that I didn’t blow up, so I’m kind-of back on the bird app.

I have absolutely zero intention of actually being there, though. The only things that will be posted to this account are my available dates, the occasional photo/quip, and links to my newsletter subscription. I might post there more once ive got Fansly figured out more, but who knows.

I make no promises!

If you’d like to follow this new account, you can do so by clicking here.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

If Two is a Scene, Three is a Party!

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If two is a scene...

Three is a party!

If two is a scene, three is a party!

May has been a whirlwind of boxes, moving, and the occasional play session since all work and no play makes Erin a bit dull.

June is going to be my first month in a space all to myself, and I really couldn’t be happier about that! Of course, my friends will be in tow to play along too.


Erin’s June Availability for Chicago:

June 3: after 5pm

June 4-5: 11am-8pm

June 6-7: 5pm-9pm; Eda Blackwood will be in town and we are available for duos the 6th, 7th, and evening of the 12th! Eda is available solo from June 6-12 as well. We are offering duos starting at $1100 for the hour!

June 15-16: after 5pm

June 22 and 24: after 5pm

June 25-26: 11am-8pm

Remember! I take a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago, and once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York This Summer?

I am very heavily considering heading to NYC this summer in either June or July (July more than likely)!

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’d love to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Of course, my wife Roxanne Dupri will be joining! Book the duo- you know you want to!

OnlyFans for Mild, Fansly for Wild.

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS. So from now on, posting to Onlyfans is going to consist of selfies and pretty mild content.

I’ve already been approved for a Fansly account, and once I’m set up in my new space, I’ll resume making and posting my more salacious content there. You’ll be able to purchase directly without needing to DM me too, which is excellent.

Follow me on Fansly!

There’s literally nothing there yet, as I haven’t had time to upload my content there yet. You’ll get a newsletter update once I have.

In the meantime, here’s a short list of my current content. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

May Chicago Dates and More

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May Day! May Day!

Ready for my May dates?

It’s not an emergency, but you should definitely act fast!

May is going to be a very, very busy month for me! I’m moving into a new apartment and consolidating my incall space!

Since I’ve changed how I take dates and truly prioritize longer connections while I’m home, there’s just more opportunity for me to create more intimate spaces for us to share together. You already know how much I love creating a lasting experience and taking you to new heights—imagine how a more personal space will feel!

That being said, May is relatively limited due to moving and rearranging. Below are the dates I’m available to see you. Remember, I do prioritize evening dates when possible, and I absolutely love to be whisked away for dinner and drinks after an intense play session!

Erin’s May Availability for Chicago:

May 1: 11am-8pm

May 2-4: after 5pm

May 13: after 5pm

May 14-15: 11am-8pm

May 18-19: after 5pm

Remember! This kinky BBW escort Chicago takes a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago. Once once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York This Summer?

I am very heavily considering heading to NYC this summer in either June or July (July more than likely)!

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! If you haven’t seen me before, you’ll want to fill out my booking form and introduce yourself. It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’d love to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Of course, my wife Roxanne Dupri will be joining! Book the duo- you know you want to!

OnlyFans is a cockblock

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS.

This includes lots of videos that I send via DM, too! It’s a bummer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get that content. 🙂

There’s a short list below of my current content available. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

April Dates and Special Guests

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April 2022 Dates and Special Guests!

April's almost here and...

Spring has (got me) Sprung!

With the start of Spring, I wanted to get my April dates out to you a little bit earlier than normal. I love when folks plan in advance—getting on the books with this Chicago prostate massage expert is a piece of cake as long as you plan!

Erin’s April Availability for Chicago:

April 1-4

April 9,10, & 15th

April 21, 22, & 23rd

April 28-30th

Remember! I take a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago, and once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

TS Addy Finch in Chicago April 3-4!

It’s been a while since I’ve gotten a chance to play with Addy in Chicago, the world being what it was and all. I’m really excited that she’s coming to visit. So excited, that I’m offering 1 hour duo dates with her to celebrate!

Here are the rates to see us together:

1 hour: $1650

90 minutes: $2200

2 hours: $3000

3 hour cocktail date: $4500

4 hour dinner date: $6000

If you’d like to learn more about Addy, or you’d like to book her solo, check out her website.

New OnlyFans Content? You don't say!

I know, I know. I said I was going to start using my OnlyFans in a more twitter-like capacity since I no longer have a twitter account. I’m getting there! I’ve updated a few things over the past week, and am planning on keeping a schedule of updating a few times a week.

Just a warning though- if you want some of my racier content, it appears that it now violates OF’s policies. You’re welcome to pay for it via OF, but I’ll more than likely have to email the content to you.

Thank you to all of you who have continued to follow me! Your support means a ton, especially as I’ve been making bigger life transitions. I’m planning on releasing some more candid, random, and fun material as well, so keep on the lookout.

If you’d like to re-start your subscription, I’m currently running a 40% off special from now until April 1!

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The Shape of Things to Come

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The Shape of Things to Come

It's been quite a journey...

and its time to change it up.

As some of you may have noticed, Chicago’s favorite prostate massage and anal expert is no longer active on Twitter. I stopped hanging out there for various reasons, but mostly because Twitter was a huge drain on me both mentally and emotionally. I’d get too caught up in what other people were doing/thinking/saying that I barely had time to figure out what I was doing.

So I stopped. Cold turkey. No warning. I didn’t care if it effected my business (it has not, for those wondering); I’d rather lose the business than engage via that platform anymore.

You can of course still find me on Instagram at theofficialerinblack, but that name is going to be changing pretty soon here.  I’m also on TikTok despite being over the age of 30. My handle there is aesthetically_zealous. I don’t know what I’m doing there yet, but once I do i have a feeling it’ll be a lot of plants, cats, and other things that don’t have to do with being a prostate massage expert.

Those of you who are still following me on OnlyFans (bless your hearts), that’s going to come down soon too. Don’t expect to have access to that past February of 2022.

I’m not wiping Erin from the internet. The internet is forever anyway. But I am starting to tidy up where and how Erin does show up. That includes in-person, too.

I’ve decided that effective immediately, I’m no longer generally open to meeting new playmates.

This transition has also bought a career transition along with it, and that’s going to be taking up most of my time. I’ve worked really hard over the last several months to get my shit together enough in order to move my life in a direction that I promised myself I’d move it in. I also wanted to remain true to myself in realizing that ‘retirement’ was never going to be for me; I simply love being Erin too much to let that facet of myself be shelved indefinitely.

For those of you who would like to see me in the future who have not seen me prior to 2022, my rate structure is changing.

I know, I know. You’ve been wanting to see me for ages but couldn’t get up the nerve. Ten years is a long time to work up that nerve! Lucky for you, there’s still a chance we may meet. All you need to do is sign up for my newsletter so you know when I’ll have space and time to take on new friends. I’ll announce the days and times I have available, and what types of dates I’m prioritizing at that time, generally at the beginning of every month. I’m only going to be be offering 4 date types publicly; an introduction up to 90 minutes at $1000, a 2-hour date at $1500, a 3 hour cocktail date at $2000, and a 4-hour dinner date at $2500. Anything outside of that can be arranged directly with me after our first meeting. While travel dates aren’t out of the question, I’m currently reserving them for people who have already seen me. I won’t be touring in the foreseeable future but if I do I will reach out to you directly based on the city you’ve put in your newsletter sign-up form.

If you’d like to be considered for a booking ahead of the newsletter announcement, here’s how you can find yourself in my good graces:

Fill out my booking form completely, and sending along a generous token of appreciation from my wish list. You may also inquire as to my CashApp, Venmo, or Zelle information should you wish to send money instead of a gift.

Now, for those of you who have already seen me, it’s your turn!

A few procedural things are changing, along with date lengths. If you’ve seen me prior to 2022, all the rates are exactly the same until I deem it time to change them. You’re not out in the cold, and you don’t have to find someone else to share your secrets with all over again.

I am also only going to be offering the following date lengths: 90 minutes at $750, 2 hours at $1000, 3 hours at $1500, and 4 hours at $2000. I will be taking absolutely no last-minute dates, and all dates will have to be booked at least 72 hours in advance. While rates specific to people who have seen me prior to 2022 won’t be listed anywhere else on my site except in this blog post, all the procedural policies will be listed on the Investment page and are the same whether we’ve known one another 5 years or 5 minutes.

Whew, that was a mouthful. Thanks for hanging in there with me through it.

And honestly, in general- thank you all so much for hanging in there with me through these 10 amazing and ridiculous years of being Erin Black. I’m looking forward to quite a few more!

xoxo

Erin

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Couple’s Guide To Hiring an Escort

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How To Hire an Escort for Couples

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Perhaps you’re curious about introducing another partner into your dynamic, but you honestly have no idea where to start. Hopefully, you and your partner have a warm, comfortable, and supportive relationship where you can share your wants and desires openly and honestly with one another.

Reassuring your partner that you’re not trying to replace them can oftentimes be important when bringing up ideas surrounding introducing another person into your sexual dynamic, and you should really ask yourself the following question regarding adding another person into your sexytimes:

Am I looking to add another person into my relationship dynamic, or do I want to try having another person join my partner and I for noncommittal funtimes?

If you’re looking to change the primary dynamic of your relationship from that of a couple to that of a triad, this article isn’t for you. You’d want to google “polyamory” or “poly triad” or something along those lines.

If, however, you’re part of a couple and want to have an encounter with a third person that’s purely sexual, then this is the article for you!

Bringing a third person into your bedroom can truly be an adventure that brings the two of you closer together as a couple if done correctly, or spell disaster if done incorrectly. As a professional escort and companion, as well as a sexual adventurer in my private life, I’ve seen this go both ways, and I’ll be honest: hiring a companion is the best way to ensure bringing in a third person goes as best as it possibly can.

Here’s why hiring an escort who sees couples beats the pants off of trying to find a unicorn on OK Cupid or Tinder:

 

Finding a unicorn in the wild is often very difficult and time-consuming.

Let’s face it. If you’re a couple trying to add a third, you’re more than likely a man/woman couple looking to add another woman. Anecdotally, I’ve never had a same-sex couple approach me personally or professionally and personally? I don’t want to be a random sexual experiment for a couple trying to spice up their relationship. Don’t get me wrong; there are some women out there that are very into having sex with and dating couples. Most single women on dating apps aren’t looking to hook up with couples expressly, and those of us who would even be open to it are sick of being approached by couples that are often vulgar and downright rude. If you’re not a rude, pushy couple and you’re genuinely looking to find someone to have a great time with, the cards are already stacked against you because single bisexual/queer women are pretty over being unicorn-hunted. The ones that aren’t there yet are elusive and will probably end up evading you.

Hiring a professional escort who’s into seeing couples literally sidesteps all the wasted evenings you’d both spend swiping right and sending messages only to have your messaged ignored and deleted.

The  power dynamic differential between a single person and a couple is wildly unbalanced and it’s honestly not fair to the single person.

This is straight from the personal history books, folks. Having sex with couples, unpaid, is akin to being made to feel like a fuck machine/masturbation sleeve and whew! It can be seriously off-putting. Couples, there is NOTHING WRONG with wanting to prioritize your pleasure and experience as a couple. What’s not ok is using another person with no regards to their wants and needs in order to do so.

When you hire an escort who sees couples and specializes in couple’s dynamics, you’re hiring someone who understands that you’re trying to increase the bond and intimacy that the two of you share as a couple. I personally see myself as an augment; a special, magical person you include in your relationship when you want to feel things differently, have different experiences, and see your partner experience pleasure in a new and different way. Once the experience is over,  I as the augment go away, leaving you the couple better than I found you.

Oftentimes, adding a third party to your bedroom dynamic can end up being messy for lots of reasons you’ve never considered.

I’ve heard stories galore about couples adding a third to their bedroom fun only to have that third person decide they want more out of the relationship than the couple is willing to give.  This can and does happen when the chemistry is great between all three people, or happens to be more intense between the third and one member of the couple. If all parties aren’t careful in navigating their feelings, this scenario can turn into a war zone that’s littered with hurt feelings.

It’s my professional duty as an escort and companion to only be around when I’m specifically called for, and any professional escort worth their salt feels the same way. We treasure our time with our clients, but when our time is done, we return to our lives just as you return to yours. We value your private life as a couple just as much as we value our own. You won’t have to worry about someone trying to get in on your action unless you specifically ask them to!

So, you’ve weighed the pros and cons and ultimately decided that I’m right and hiring an escort for a threesome is probably going to be a whole lot faster and a whole lot more fun than finding someone off a dating site. Are you wondering how you go about finding an escort who sees couples? Here you go!

How To Find and Hire an Escort Who Sees Couples

There are several ways to get started! Oftentimes it can be really overwhelming to find an escort period, let alone one who sees couples. So here’s a breakdown of where to look and how!

 

Major Advertising Platforms Breakdown:

There are 4 major, national escort directory sites, where you can “shop” for the escort of your choice. These are also referred to as “escort malls.” Tryst.link, Slixa, Eros, and AdultSearch are the main national escort malls where you’re most likely to find reputable providers. Dickie Virgin specializes in professional Dommes/Mistresses and fetish-oriented escorts so if you’re interested in kink, BDSM, or fetish play, looking here is also a good idea. How to navigate Dickie Virgin isn’t discussed in this article, though.

There are lots of other more locale-based escort mall sites, but these are the four I’ll be discussing in this article.

Tryst.link

 

  1. ignore this screen. I don’t find it to be accurate at all.

2. this is much more accurate as far as search parameters. You can enter your zip code, provider preference, and you can make sure they cater to couples!

Questions about finding and booking an escort for couples? Here's the TL;DR.

Most of the time googling “escort in (your city) will get you a bunch of escort ad mall results. Sites like Tryst.link, Slixa, and Eros are sites that escorts commonly use for advertising, and you can browse to your hearts content there.

If you’re a more savvy google user, you can narrow your search parameters and search phrases like “bbw escort chicago”, kinky escort cleveland”, etc. You can try searching “couples escort in (your city)” but I’d guess not a lot will come up unless an escort is very savvy regarding marketing to couples.

Most escorts will list this on their ads! There will be a portion on the ad for “who they see”, and those who see couples will list it as such. If you found the escort via twitter or other means that doesn’t list a preference, check out that escort’s website, and look at her rates page and FAQ page. If she sees couples, she’ll probably note it on one or both of these pages.

Generally speaking, yes. A lot of escorts also want to speak with or email the woman in the couple to make sure both parties are on the same page regarding the booking. Consent is very important, and most escorts aren’t into “surprising” anyone with their presence.

This truly varies from escort to escort, but most charge an additional flat fee ranging from $200-300 on top of their normal rate to double their rate. They should have a section on their site that indicates what the couple’s charge is.

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You know you love a big, fine woman. Are you willing to admit that publicly, or is your need for a soft belly, heavy breasts, and a big ass something you need to indulge in more privately? Whichever it is matters not to me. You can come bury your face in my tits and ass. and have Chicago BBW Body Worship with me, Erin Black.

Trust me; I love every second of it.

Maybe you’re interested in giving me a sensual massage and letting your hands and mouth explore my body. 

Oh, you want a woman who takes what she wants? Then lie back and let me sit on your face in just the right spot.

If you’re into smothering and breath control while having your nose deep between my ass and thighs, I’ll set a timer and see how long you can hold your breath. Don’t worry. You’ll be handsomely distracted all the while.

Questions about Chicago NYC body worship? Check out this FAQ.

Each session is designed specifically to suit what you’re looking for, and no two sessions are the same!

However, if you’re looking specifically for body worship, the session will just encompass that. You’ll be able to explore my body, worship my ass, belly, breasts, feet, thighs, etc., and attempt to please me with your mouth ( and hands, if I give permission).

I can also just sit on your face, show my ass off to you, do toy shows,  and the like. Let’s get creative and have fun with it!

My preference is to eventually end up nude. However, if you prefer a full panty, leggings, stockings, or other undergarment, please let me know and I’ll do my best to accommodate your request!

You can have your cake and eat it, too. 😉 I do ask that when sending over your wants and desires that you keep the length of the session you want in mind.

If you’re interested in combining multiple areas of play, I do recommend booking at least 90 minutes so we aren’t rushed.

Unless you specifically request otherwise, I certainly will be! This touching can include my hands, feet, lips, and mouth depending on the scene.

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