New Year, Same Shenanigans! Ready to Romp in 2023?

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Happy New Year, You Darling Deviants!

The energy and potential of a new year is exciting and nerve-wracking all at once, is it not? New expectations set, new goals to reach, and different stressors from every angle.

Trust me, corporate work’s got me stressed about KPIs and other alphabet soup acronyms that I’d rather not talk about.

Let’s take our minds off of everyday nonsense and revel in some hedonistic playtime, shall we?

Here are my January dates, albeit a few days behind schedule:

1/13: 5-9p

1/14: 11-9p

1/16: 5-9p

1/20: 5-9p

1/30: 5-9p

Work wife Roxanne Dupri will be visiting before we bounce off to LA! Get in touch if you’d like to schedule a duo on 1/23.

Remember, I’m still pretty limited on time, and I’m taking 6 dates in January, total. Once those spots on my calendar are claimed, my books will be closed for the month.

Los Angeles, Montreal, and Charleston, Oh My!

I’ll be in Los Angeles with work wife Roxanne Dupri for a photo shoot! If you’d like to sponsor said photo shoot in any way, you’ll be handsomely rewarded with BTS photos and first look! Visa/Mastercard/Whole Foods gift cards off of my Amazon Wish List would be much appreciated!

My much awaited return north of the border to Montreal is finally happening! I’ll be in Montreal 3/22-27 and available with Leda Haze for duos.

April will take me down to Charleston to visit Roxanne Dupri and partake in soft shell crab season. Be on the lookout for dates!

Photographic Endeavors, In-Person or Online!

I’ve gotten through the processing of most of the photos from Fistmas 2022 this year, and some are up on Fansly with more to come soon! I’ll also be posting more scene photos and BTS shots from upcoming photo shoots there as well.

Head over and see what’s going on!

Also a reminder that I’m offering session photos/polaroids as keepsakes. If you’re interested, make sure to say so in your booking form!

I’m looking forward to meeting new friends, making more art, and generally having a lot of fun in 2023. I hope you’ll come along for the ride!

xo

Erin

Taking a Deeper Look at Sensual Domination and BDSM for Beginners

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Introduction

Sensual domination is a form of BDSM that involves the sensual and psychological domination of one partner by another. It is a type of play that can be extremely erotic and satisfying for both parties involved.

In this article, we will explore what sensual domination is, the different types of activities that can take place within a session, and the importance of aftercare. We will also discuss some tips for those who are new to BDSM and sensual domination.

What Is BDSM and Sensual Domination?

BDSM is an acronym that stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It’s a wide umbrella that covers a variety of activities and role-playing scenarios, all of which involve some level of consensual kinkiness.

Sensual domination is one specific type of BDSM play. It’s all about the erotic power exchange between two consenting adults. The dominant partner takes charge, while the submissive partner surrenders control. This type of play can be incredibly erotic and intimate, as it’s rooted in trust and communication.

What Are the Different Elements of Sensual Domination?

In my experience, sensual domination generally involves mental and physical elements, both of which get tied up and woven together.

First, there’s the psychological aspect. It’s important to understand that both people in the scene are responsible for crafting the scene together. That’s why I always ask about your interests before we meet. While I’m very adept at knowing what you’re looking for, I’m definitely not a mind-reader, so some insight before we get started is always helpful and helps ensure we’ll both have a great time.

I also think it’s important to consider how you want to feel emotionally during a sensual domination experience. Do you want to feel cared for? Do you want your boundaries pushed? Do you want to be teased and denied? Are you looking for a more playful partner or a stricter one who’s more formal? All this and more is possible as long as it’s communicated beforehand to allow for planning.

Many people looking to explore BDSM and sensual domination are interested in losing at least a little bit of control. Relinquishing control can be a really intense and pleasurable experience for those who are used to making decisions all the time. Shutting your brain off and allowing yourself to let someone else take control, even for just a short while, can be both nerve-wracking and incredibly rewarding. Guiding someone through that experience as a top and being able to empathize the bottom is crucial.

The physical aspect of sensual domination truly can run the gamut of sensations. Everything from bondage and spanking to sensory deprivation and tickling can be involved, but I think it’s important to note that sensual domination sessions generally don’t contain much pain, per se. Communication again is really key here! Knowing your wants and limits and expressing them clearly will make for a much more rewarding experience for everyone involved. Do you want to feel certain sensations? Do you not like having certain areas of your body touched? It’s important to let me (or any other partner) know beforehand.

Best Practices for Negotiating a Scene

Once you’ve decided to take the plunge and contact me or another kinky escort/professional dominatrix, it’s time to negotiate your scene and establish boundaries. This is an incredibly important step for successful BDSM play. If negotiation isn’t done right it can ruin the whole experience and even cause distress. Most kinky escorts and pro dommes will have intake forms on their websites that ask you specific questions about your kink and BDSM interests.

I always recommend discussing limits, safety and hygiene, use of substances, and any medical conditions/concerns you have prior to meeting. Personally, I always take time before we get started to have a quick consultation to reinforce boundaries, your level of experience, and to discuss any questions or concerns you may have.

Safe words are generally agreed upon before getting started, but I personally don’t use them unless you specifically ask me to. If you ask me to stop or want something to change during our scene, all you have to do is say so. Having to remember a safe word while you’re in the heat of the moment but need a break can be a difficult thing to do, so for me, all you need to do is say “stop”.

Also, keep in mind that BDSM should never include any type of coercion or endangerment of either partner, so it’s important to stay mindful at all times during a session. That means being mindful of the limits of the top/escort/pro domme as well. Being clear about expectations and setting boundaries is key for having a pleasurable experience that’s mutually enjoyable for both parties.

Tips for Safe and Enjoyable BDSM Experiences

Whether you’re exploring BDSM with a partner or exploring it solo, it’s important to be mindful and practice safe play. After all, a key component of BDSM is trust, and that trust is built on both partners understanding boundaries and respecting them.

If you’re new to the world of BDSM, here are some tips for getting started:

– Establish a safe word: A safe word is an agreed upon word that either partner can use to indicate they are not comfortable with what is happening or needs to take a break. As I said above, I’m always happy to use a safe word with you, but I will always stop when you tell me to.

– Communicate clearly: Before you get started, talk openly about boundaries and limits. This helps establish trust and comfort before getting down and dirty.

– Use props and toys safely: If you are using toys or props, make sure they are in good condition, clean and free from any kind of wear or tear. This includes bondage ropes – know the knots you’re using.

– Move slowly: Start with light touches while introducing yourself to new sensations and experiences. It’s also important to keep activities more limited in the beginning, as too many new sensations can be very overwhelming. Time is also a factor as well—it’s simply no fun to rush through an hour session trying a bunch of new things and not fully experiencing any of them! Limiting areas of play can really lead to deeper fulfillment in those areas.

– Have fun! BDSM should be something that excites both partners without being intimidating or overwhelming – it should be an enjoyable experience for everyone involved. Playfulness is a huge part of my personality and BDSM practice, so be prepared for lots of laughs and smiles!

Common Misconceptions About BDSM and Sensual Domination

Many people think that BDSM and sensual domination are just about pain and humiliation. While those elements can be included, if that’s what you’re interested in, sensual domination (and BDSM on whole) is far more than just being flogged.

It is important to understand that BDSM and sensual domination should be focused on mutual pleasure, respect, and communication.

The final misconception is that BDSM requires an elaborate setup or tons of gear. While gear and equipment do open up different avenues to play with, none of it is necessary. While some people enjoy playing with whips, chains and restraints, sensual domination does not have to involve any of those elements at all! I find that an overabundance of gear can be intimidating for folks who are new to BDSM, so I try to keep things on the lighter side for those of you just starting to explore. I tend to use my hands, breath, body, and voice to set the scene, and incorporate toys and implements as the sessions progresses. I do have a sling, and most people are very curious about it when they see it, so it often gets incorporated into my sessions. 😉

Conclusion

Sensual domination can be an incredibly erotic experience, but it’s important to remember that it’s all about consent and communication. If you’re thinking about trying sensual domination or BDSM with a professional, make sure you’re open and honest about your wants and needs so that everyone can get on the same page.

Remember to play safe and have fun! When you’re ready to book a sensual domination session with a kinky professional escort in Chicago, I’ll be here!

Transform Your Health With Prostate Massage: 6 Reasons to Try It Now

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Introduction

There’s no denying that prostate massage benefits are real. But if you’re like most men, you’re probably skeptical about giving it a try. There’s a lot of stigma around putting things in your butt and enjoying it, but there are truly amazing benefits to having your prostate massaged.

In this post, I’m going to list 6 reasons why you should try prostate massage today. Trust me, once you experience prostate massage benefits as well as prostate massage pleasure, you’ll be hooked for life.

So what are you waiting for? Scroll down and find out just how amazing prostate massages are!

Also, I shouldn’t have to say this, but this post is not to be misconstrued for medical advice. If you’re having pain or other issues, go see a doctor, please!

What Is Prostate Massage?

I’ve been doing prostate massage for so long, that I almost can’t remember the first time I gave one. It was back when I first started as a pro domme, sometime between late 2011 and early 2012. A client asked me if I’d ever given one before, and when I said “no”, he happily instructed me.

At the time, I had no idea what i was doing and was nervous that I’d end up causing more pain than pleasure, but I was willing to give it a shot. We had an absolutely amazing time together, and seeing what kind of pleasure prostate massage could bring was truly a turn-on for me.

Having so much control over someone’s pleasure with such slight movement really excited me. It’s an excitement that’s never gone away!

Now, after years of experience with prostate massage, I can say that it’s probably the one thing I recommend everyone with a prostate tries at least once. Not only does it feel amazing (so I’m told), but it’s also got a bunch of health benefits that I never would have guessed.

If you’re curious about trying prostate massage, then keep reading – I’m going to list six reasons why you should give it a go.

1. The Power of Relaxation

Most people don’t realize it, but in order to really enjoy a prostate massage, you have to learn to really relax. Deep breathing and letting all of your muscles go slack are really important parts of the whole process. If its your first time receiving a prostate massage, it’s going to take some time for you to get relaxed. Generally, I like to start off with a traditional body rub so we can get to know one another. It really helps break the ice and relieve the first-time jitters.

And truthfully, let’s be real. When you’re stressed, your asshole is tight. There’s nothing worse than trying to work with a tight asshole that just won’t relax, and cutting off circulation in my fingers isn’t fun for me either. So taking our time and getting you to relax both mentally and physically is really important!

After the fact, most report that they sleep better than they’ve slept in years the night after a prostate massage. When the prostate is stimulated, it releases toxins and tensions that have built up over time. This, in turn, can improve your overall health and well-being. Releasing pent up stress is always good for our health, after all.

2. Improved Sexual Performance

I mean, who doesn’t want to have improved stamina and prowess in bed? Sounds like a pretty sweet deal, doesn’t it? Prostate massage is definitely one way to improve your stamina, and I’ll explain why.

After you cum, there’s a period of time afterwards called your refractory period. Essentially, this is the length of time you experience between erections/orgasms. When men are younger, their refractory periods are short—sometimes they’re so short, they basically don’t exist. It’s that whole “Energizer Rabbit” phenomenon. As men age, their refractory periods get longer and longer, meaning that the time it takes to get hard after an orgasm lengthens to the point where you may only be able to get hard and have an orgasm once every several hours, if not longer.

Fortunately, you can change that!

Prostate massage purportedly helps to shorten your refractory period, meaning you’ll be able to get hard again faster after you orgasm. It takes time and a bit of training, but I’ve actually done this for several clients over the years! We’ve worked on it together, and they’ve reported a lot of success in their personal lives.

3. Bladder Control and Relief From Urine Retention

In my experience as a prostate massage provider, I’ve seen how releasing the built-up tension in the prostate can lead to improved bladder control. In short, it can make it easier to pee — and not just any pee.

Better urinary flow means a bigger stream and fewer trips to the bathroom at night. Who knew that pressing a few magic buttons (on your prostate) could help you skip having to run around like a crazy person in your dreams — or worse — waking up with sore legs from standing up too many times?

Prostate massage might just be the answer to all of those bathroom headaches, giving you back some of that precious time we devote to squeezing out every last drop.

4. Prostate Massage Benefit: Pain Relief

Prostate massage is always my go-to for men who suffer with pain issues. Whether you’re dealing with chronic or acute pain, prostate massage can be a great way to manage it naturally. Not only can it help reduce inflammation, but it also improves blood circulation as well as the functioning of the pelvic muscles.

During a prostate massage, I can target pain-causing areas in the pelvic area that may otherwise go unnoticed. With this targeted pressure, I can release tension and alleviate discomfort in your lower belly. This freedom from pain is often immediate and can often last for several hours post massage.

5. Prostate Massage Benefits and Cancer Prevention

Believe it or not, prostate massage might even help prevent prostate cancer. While not thoroughly researched, there is some research that exists that shows alleviating chronic prostatitis and inflammation of the prostate can help reduce instances of prostate cancer. That’s why I always advise my clients to book regular prostate massages. Fun and health? Sign me up!

6. Learning New Ways to Experience Pleasure

Prostate massage is often a gateway into other anally focused pleasure for men. Men have a significantly larger number of nerve endings that experience pleasure in and around their anus and perineum, so anal stimulation scientifically feels more pleasurable for men. Evolution saw fit to put one of your most sexually sensitive areas up your ass, so I don’t see any reason not to fuck around and find out what all the hype is about!

Prostate massage also doesn’t require your dick be involved. Like, at all. You can experience immense pleasure solely from prostate massage and anal penetration with some training and patience. So if you experience erectile dysfunction or simply want to de-emphasize your dick in a sexual experience, prostate massage is a great option! You’d be amazed at just how erotic and sensual a sexual experience can be when you start to truly pay attention to other parts of your body that can (and do) receive pleasure (chastity training, nipple play, or strap-on, anyone)!

Conclusion

So there you have it, my top 6 reasons why you should try prostate massage as well as prostate massage benefits. I hope I’ve convinced you to at least give it a try. And if you’re in the Chicago area, I hope you’ll come see me for a session. I promise you won’t regret it!

October Dates and Fansly is Live!

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Scary stories, candlelight, bourbon on the rocks. Sound like a date?

Warm September evenings are starting to give way to cooler October nights filled with crisp air, the smell of leaves turning, and the sun fading to black much quicker than I remember.

Fall is 100% my favorite season for lots of reasons (shorts with turtlenecks, leather jackets, and moto boots, anyone?), but there’s something about cooler, longer nights that make me crave more decadent dalliances.

Those of you who’ve dined with me know that I love it all from cozy neighborhood joints to steakhouses and even a Michelin star or 2. Those of you who haven’t, I’m not entirely sure what you’re waiting for!

That being said, for the month of October, if you book a 3 hour cocktail date, I’ll make it a 4 hour dinner date. Just let me know any dietary restrictions or dining preferences, and I’ll do the rest (including making you wear panties and/or a plug, if you want to get the fun started at dinner 😏).

This offer only applies to my available dates in October.

For the month of October, my availability is as follows:

10/2, 11-9p

10/6, 5-9p

10/7, 5-9p

10/14, 5-9p

10/15, 11-9p

10/19, 5-9p

10/21, 5-9p

10/22, 11-9p

10/23, 11-9p

10/27, 5-9p

Please keep in mind, that I am only taking 6 bookings total for October! Once those bookings are filled, my books will be closed for the month.

Ready to book your rendezvous? Click here!

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FANSLY IS UP AND RUNNING!

I know, I’ve been saying it for months, but it’s finally true. Fansly is up and running! I’m slowly but surely getting everything over there uploaded, so bear with me while my slow internet connection chugs along at uploading content.

There’s a lot to go through over the last year or so, so expect to be entertained for at least a little while, right y’all?

I’ve also started three different subscription tiers based on the type of content you might be interested in seeing. Keep in mind that nothing I do is of a hardcore nature, and that I’m currently not taking custom requests. All of my content is based on my daily life, sessions, and goings about, so choose your own adventure!

Tier 1: For those who are looking to take a peek into my life. Cute selfies, photos from nature walks and working out, restaurants, plants, cats, and other shenanigans. Maybe a titty or two, who knows. Might even do some audio recordings and videos. $5 until Oct 31!

Tier 2: For those who are fetish/BDSM-curious or into the more sensual side of things. Think JOI videos, audio recordings, anal training videos, some thoughts on prostate massage and strap-on play, throat training, chastity, etc. These videos are generally solo- if they aren’t solo they’re probably going to be with my wife, Roxanne Dupri. $7 until Oct 31!

Tier3: This is where I really indulge my own fetishes. Think fisting, large insertions, ridiculously fun and large Bad Dragon, Pleasure Forge, and Mr. Hanky toys, other more intense BDSM themes, watersports, pig training, forced intox, queening, body worship, and more. Basically most anything goes here, but the only partnered videos will be BDSM-themed. $14 until Oct 31!

Every previous tier also includes the one above it, so if you purchase Tier 2, you’ll get everything in Tier 1 plus Tier 2. Tier 3 includes everything, and Tier 1 is just Tier 1. You can also simply follow my profile there and unlock posts as you wish!

If you’d rather not subscribe and just want to download content, that’s available too! You can head over to Niteflirt and check out my updated Goodies. These are taking a little longer to deal with, but I’ll be getting things uploaded and ready to go as they get approved!

Hopefully I’ll see you all over on Fansly or that you’ll be indulging in goodies soon enough.

Until then, enjoy Autumn if the weather changes where you are, and hopefully I’ll see some of you very, very soon.

xoxo

Erin

September Chicago Dates and NYC Tour Dates!

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Warm days and longer nights are made for indulgence.

August is quickly ending, and with that end comes the start of longer evenings that are made to be filled with debauchery!

To add to that debauchery, I’ve decided to extend my hour offering into September. I have 2 available bookings for 1 hour dates this month, so if you’ve been wanting to see me but haven’t had the chance!

My Chicago availability is as follows:

9/7, noon-3, or after 5pm

9/10, 11-9pm

9/11, 11-9pm

9/20, after 5pm

9/22, after 5pm

9/23, after 5pm

9/24, 11-9pm

9/26, 2-9pm

9/30, after 5pm

Please keep in mind, that I am only taking 5 bookings total for September! Once those bookings are filled, my books will be closed for the month.

I’ll be in NYC September 13-16, and available for duos with Roxanne Dupri! Prebooking is highly encouraged.


Book The Date

The Duo of a Lifetime

You know I only fuck with the best, and my wife Roxanne Dupri is absolutely the best partner both in life and in work!

We’re going to be in NYC together Sepetember 13-16, and then again in Chicago. We will have availability on 9/20 and 9/22! Prebooking is an absolute must as our duo slots get spoken for quickly.

One of our favorites refers to us as “good elf, bad elf”; you’ll need to see us together to find out which is which!

We always guarantee that you’ll leave having your mind and various other things blown, so to speak. Are you ready to have your limits stretched in the hottest way possible?

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Here’s to the kids heading back to school, longer nights, and darker desires,

Your NYC prostate massage expert,

Erin

ps- follow me on Twitter for brief updates, cancellation announcements, and a few other things. I’m not there often though so don’t expect a ton. 😉

PSS: OnlyFans is a cockblock

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS.

This includes lots of videos that I send via DM, too! It’s a bummer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get that content. 🙂

There’s a short list below of my current content available. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!


Blonde Kinky Tattooed Escort Erin Black’s August Availability

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August in Chicago

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Y'all brought the fire for July!

Ready for August?

Y’all really decided to fuck around and find out, and my July is gone for all but the following dates:

July 24: 3-9pm

July 29: 5-9pm

July 31: 11-9pm

Remember that getting what you want takes planning. I take a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago, and once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month.

I’m excited to be meeting new friends this month, and am truly looking forward to developing new relationships and stretching (heh) more boundaries!

August availability is a bit more limited than July’s (y’all are starting to get with the program and book well in advance), but I’m still offering a limited number of hour-long dates for $750 through the month of August. I may actually keep hour long dates permanently, but haven’t yet decided.

If I have cancellations through July, I’ll be sure to either reach out personally or post them on Twitter. I don’t post often there, but follow me if you’re looking for more last-minute bookings due to cancellations.

Erin’s August Availability for Chicago:

8/5: 5-9pm
8/6: 11a-9p
8/13-8/14: 11-9pm
8/17: 5-9pm
8/19: 5-9pm
8/20-21: 11-9pm
8/24-25: 5-9pm

For the month of August, I have room for 4 dates. Once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to prebook in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York in September!

Well, it looks like Roxanne Dupri and I are in for New York this fall! We will be available together or separately September 13-16th in Midtown, Manhattan.

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! I’ll also be reaching out to those of you I’ve seen in the past. 🙂

If you haven’t seen me before, you’ll want to fill out my booking form and introduce yourself. It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’m excited to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Back on the bird app, but not really.

I found an old-ass twitter account that I didn’t blow up, so I’m kind-of back on the bird app.

I have absolutely zero intention of actually being there, though. The only things that will be posted to this account are my available dates, the occasional photo/quip, and links to my newsletter subscription. I might post there more once ive got Fansly figured out more, but who knows.

I make no promises!

If you’d like to follow this new account, you can do so by clicking here.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

Ready to F*ck Around and Find Out? July Dates and More!

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I'm ready to bring the heat.

Are you ready to take it?

Today is officially the first day of summer! While the heat crept in earlier this month, there’s nothing like truly breaking a sweat when we’re playing together.

You know my energy during our time together is unmatched, and I love bringing you to the edge and back over and over again. You know that as a prostate massage expert Chicago, you’re going to have the most intense orgasms with me. Why not come experience something new and ask about my sling?

Been curious about seeing me, but can’t get away for longer than an hour? Starting July 1 through August 31, I’ll be giving those of you who haven’t seen me yet the chance to have a 1-hour Erin Black experience for $750.

I’d highly suggest taking advantage of this opportunity while I have some additional space in my schedule!

Erin’s July Availability:

July 1-3: 11am-9p

July 8: 5pm-9pm

July 9: 11am-9p

July 13-14: 5p-9p

July 17: 11a-9p

July 20: 5p-9p

July 24: 3p-9p

July 29-30: 5p-9p

July 31: 11am-9p

For the month of July, I’m taking 7 dates. Once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York This Summer? Not in this economy!

Well, the cost of flying right now is simply ridiculous, so my trip to NYC is going to be postponed until September.

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’d love to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Of course, my wife Roxanne Dupri will be joining! Book the duo- you know you want to!

OnlyFans for Mild, Fansly for Wild

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS. So from now on, posting to Onlyfans is going to consist of selfies and pretty mild content.

I’ve already been approved for a Fansly account, but I still need to set up the account fully. Hopefully I’ll have that done by the end of the month, and I’ll let you know once I do!

Follow me on Fansly!

In the meantime, here’s a short list of my current content. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!

Back on the bird app, kind of.

I found an old-ass twitter account that I didn’t blow up, so I’m kind-of back on the bird app.

I have absolutely zero intention of actually being there, though. The only things that will be posted to this account are my available dates, the occasional photo/quip, and links to my newsletter subscription. I might post there more once ive got Fansly figured out more, but who knows.

I make no promises!

If you’d like to follow this new account, you can do so by clicking here.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

If Two is a Scene, Three is a Party!

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If two is a scene...

Three is a party!

If two is a scene, three is a party!

May has been a whirlwind of boxes, moving, and the occasional play session since all work and no play makes Erin a bit dull.

June is going to be my first month in a space all to myself, and I really couldn’t be happier about that! Of course, my friends will be in tow to play along too.


Erin’s June Availability for Chicago:

June 3: after 5pm

June 4-5: 11am-8pm

June 6-7: 5pm-9pm; Eda Blackwood will be in town and we are available for duos the 6th, 7th, and evening of the 12th! Eda is available solo from June 6-12 as well. We are offering duos starting at $1100 for the hour!

June 15-16: after 5pm

June 22 and 24: after 5pm

June 25-26: 11am-8pm

Remember! I take a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago, and once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York This Summer?

I am very heavily considering heading to NYC this summer in either June or July (July more than likely)!

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’d love to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Of course, my wife Roxanne Dupri will be joining! Book the duo- you know you want to!

OnlyFans for Mild, Fansly for Wild.

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS. So from now on, posting to Onlyfans is going to consist of selfies and pretty mild content.

I’ve already been approved for a Fansly account, and once I’m set up in my new space, I’ll resume making and posting my more salacious content there. You’ll be able to purchase directly without needing to DM me too, which is excellent.

Follow me on Fansly!

There’s literally nothing there yet, as I haven’t had time to upload my content there yet. You’ll get a newsletter update once I have.

In the meantime, here’s a short list of my current content. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

May Chicago Dates and More

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May Chicago and Tour Dates

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May Day! May Day!

Ready for my May dates?

It’s not an emergency, but you should definitely act fast!

May is going to be a very, very busy month for me! I’m moving into a new apartment and consolidating my incall space!

Since I’ve changed how I take dates and truly prioritize longer connections while I’m home, there’s just more opportunity for me to create more intimate spaces for us to share together. You already know how much I love creating a lasting experience and taking you to new heights—imagine how a more personal space will feel!

That being said, May is relatively limited due to moving and rearranging. Below are the dates I’m available to see you. Remember, I do prioritize evening dates when possible, and I absolutely love to be whisked away for dinner and drinks after an intense play session!

Erin’s May Availability for Chicago:

May 1: 11am-8pm

May 2-4: after 5pm

May 13: after 5pm

May 14-15: 11am-8pm

May 18-19: after 5pm

Remember! This kinky BBW escort Chicago takes a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago. Once once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

New York This Summer?

I am very heavily considering heading to NYC this summer in either June or July (July more than likely)!

If we’ve seen one another before, please feel free to reach out directly at [email protected] so we can discuss dates! If you haven’t seen me before, you’ll want to fill out my booking form and introduce yourself. It’s been quite a while since I’ve been to NYC, and I’d love to get there before the leaves hit the ground.

Of course, my wife Roxanne Dupri will be joining! Book the duo- you know you want to!

OnlyFans is a cockblock

Well, I’ve been back and active on OnlyFans only to discover that as soon as I post a lot of my content, it gets ripped down for violating TOS.

This includes lots of videos that I send via DM, too! It’s a bummer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get that content. 🙂

There’s a short list below of my current content available. If you’d like to purchase anything, send me an email at [email protected] with what you’d like and I can send you my payment options. I’m not currently doing custom content, but I may in the future. When I do, I’ll let you know!

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Escape with me.

Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

April Dates and Special Guests

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April 2022 Dates and Special Guests!

April's almost here and...

Spring has (got me) Sprung!

With the start of Spring, I wanted to get my April dates out to you a little bit earlier than normal. I love when folks plan in advance—getting on the books with this Chicago prostate massage expert is a piece of cake as long as you plan!

Erin’s April Availability for Chicago:

April 1-4

April 9,10, & 15th

April 21, 22, & 23rd

April 28-30th

Remember! I take a maximum of 4 dates per month in Chicago, and once those dates are spoken for, my calendar is closed for the month. Of course, you’re always more than welcome to pre-book in advance as far as you’d like. The world is your oyster then!

TS Addy Finch in Chicago April 3-4!

It’s been a while since I’ve gotten a chance to play with Addy in Chicago, the world being what it was and all. I’m really excited that she’s coming to visit. So excited, that I’m offering 1 hour duo dates with her to celebrate!

Here are the rates to see us together:

1 hour: $1650

90 minutes: $2200

2 hours: $3000

3 hour cocktail date: $4500

4 hour dinner date: $6000

If you’d like to learn more about Addy, or you’d like to book her solo, check out her website.

New OnlyFans Content? You don't say!

I know, I know. I said I was going to start using my OnlyFans in a more twitter-like capacity since I no longer have a twitter account. I’m getting there! I’ve updated a few things over the past week, and am planning on keeping a schedule of updating a few times a week.

Just a warning though- if you want some of my racier content, it appears that it now violates OF’s policies. You’re welcome to pay for it via OF, but I’ll more than likely have to email the content to you.

Thank you to all of you who have continued to follow me! Your support means a ton, especially as I’ve been making bigger life transitions. I’m planning on releasing some more candid, random, and fun material as well, so keep on the lookout.

If you’d like to re-start your subscription, I’m currently running a 40% off special from now until April 1!

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Escape with me.

Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in GFE, Kinky GFE, dinner dates, extended dates, and other sensual adventures. BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences are where she truly shines.

Most folks simply hope for what they want.
Not you, though.
You get what you want.

My January availability is as follows:

January Availability:
1/13: 5-9p
1/14: 11-9p
1/16: 5-9p
1/20: 5-9p
1/30: 5-9pm

Work wife Roxanne Dupri will be visiting before we bounce off to LA! Get in touch if you’d like to schedule a duo on 1/23.

Remember my availability is pretty limited in Chicago, and I’ve got 3 bookings available for the month of January!

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