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Edging, Tease, & Denial

The Art of Teasing & Denial – Discover Erotic Torture with Erin Black in Chicago

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The Power of Edging, Tease & Denial with Erin Black in Chicago

Imagine, if you will, being completely under my control. I’m sure when you think about this, the first thing you consider is that I wield control over you via inflictions of pain and a certain type of sadism.

While that may be true in some instances, it’s not in this particular one. I’ve learned over the years that you draw more bees with sugar than you do with vinegar (unless of course, you’re really into vinegar).

This type of control is the kind that keeps you begging for more. You’ll be helpless, alright. Tied down, be it to a St. Andrew’s Cross or a bondage table, your body is mine for the taking.  Completely exposed with nowhere to run to, and nowhere to hide.

My hands, whether bare or covered in latex, instinctively know where the most sensitive places on your body exist, and I know exactly how to use those places to make you beg and plead with me. Tease, denial, and edging is the game we’ll play until the pleading turns into “May I, Erin?”.

Tender, throbbing, and craving release, you’ll be taken to the edge and back again and again until I hear you beg for exactly what you want.

What is Tease & Denial in BDSM?

For the uninitiated, tease and denial in the context of BDSM is a way to play with power exchange in  a way that specifically focuses on the giving and taking away of pleasure. Generally this involves bringing someone just to the brink of orgasm, and then backing off or stopping completely. Some people love when this back and forth includes complete release while others love the build up of intense erotic frustration while being denied that final orgasm.

Sounds frustrating, doesn’t it? Believe me, it is frustrating, but it’s the best kind of frustration you’ll ever experience. Depending on other elements utilized (think bondage and sensory deprivation), the amount of sensation that can be brought about by an intense tease and denial session are second to none. 

For those looking to experience submission that doesn’t focus on subservience, degradation, humiliation or outright pain, edging, tease and denial, and chastity play can unlock deeply submissive thoughts and tendencies. What are you willing to do in order to get that final release? Are you willing to do things you may not ordinarily do? Will you beg and plead? The list goes on depending on your own personal proclivities and the negotiation of the session.

I personally love to playfully tease and taunt during sessions like this, particularly in ways that enhance enjoyment for both of us.  

Who is tease and denial for?

 Tease and denial sessions are great for all types of people, whether you are new to BDSM or a long-time player looking for something that delivers a different type of intensity.  

To keep this as simple as possible, a tease and denial session may be for you if:

-You’re new to kink and BDSM and looking to explore prolonged arousal in a sexy yet safe and controlled environment.

-You’re an experienced bottom or submissive who craves strict chastity, orgasm control, or other forms of orgasm torture.

-You’re interested in having your pleasure controlled by someone else, with no way to control the level or intensity on your own. You may also enjoy being kept in a constant state of need and love the excitement of erotic frustration.

-You’re looking for a unique, high-end experience that focuses on power exchange through erotic control

What to Expect from an Edging & Tease-and-Denial Session with Erin Black

No two sessions are ever the same, and will absolutely vary depending on things like our chemistry, if we are new to one another, your past experiences (if any), and a plethora of other things that are too numerous to list. 

Everyone comes into these types of experiences with certain expectations, whether that’s because they’ve watched porn centered on tease/denial/chastity, read erotica about it, or played with it solo or with past partners. All of that leads to different dynamics that we’ll navigate.

While no two sessions are the same for the above reasons, there is a rhythm to this type of play. For me, that rhythm involves rendering you slightly or very helpless via bondage and sensory depravation. This allows me full access to your body while allowing you to fully drop into a space where you can more acutely experience what I’m doing to you.

When you lose your sense of sight or ability to touch at will, sensations become more intense. Its more thrilling when you feel me touch you somewhere new, or when you feel a part of my body brush against yours. 

Restraining you also allows me to be a torturously slow as I want to be.  Using feathers, fur, silk, leather, and other textures allows me to keep you in anticipation mode, never knowing what’s coming next. Toys like vibrators and sleeves bring more intensity into the push and pull of bringing you right to the brink.

Techniques Used in Tease & Denial

There are various techniques and scenarios that can be played with during a tease and denial session. I have lots of interests that can be incorporated into a tease and denial session, but here are some favorites, to give you a few ideas:

Edging– bringing you to the edge of orgasm, only to back off or stop completely at the very last moment.
Breath Play– one of my favorite games to play involves my ass on your face, and seeing how long you can take holding your breath while my hands work you over.
Restraint, bondage, and overstimulation– Tying you down by your arms and wrists, or fully wrapping you to the table gives me ample opportunity to deliver intense amounts of stimulation in various ways. Tickling and electro-stimulation happen to be favorites of mine, especially if you’re overly ticklish. 
Ruined Orgasm/Post Orgasm Torture– Climaxing without satisfaction can oftentimes elicit feelings of deep submission. The sensitivity that follows a full and pleasurable climax can be used against you as well in the event I keep going and don’t relent in stimulating you. This type of torture can be extremely intense and lead to forced orgasms, i.e. orgasms that you’re not interested in having and that can ultimately cause a lot of physical exertion and exhaustion.
Chastity– There’s nothing like teasing you while your cock is caged. Teaching you how to de-center your cock in terms of pleasure is one of my favorite things to do. I am generally only interested in this type of chastity when anal play is involved.

How To Book:

Book your Tease and Denial Session in Chicago with Erin Black

1.
Read The Website

Before contacting me, please read my website. The Investment, Experiences, and Decorum & FAQ pages, especially!

2.
Check My Availability

I am generally available evenings and weekends. Daytime availability is very limited and best booked in advance.

3.
Submit Your Request

You can either fill out my booking form or email me directly! I love courteous requests that come with great introductions.

1.
Read The Website

Before contacting me, please read my website. The Investment, Experiences, and Decorum & FAQ pages, especially!

2.
Check My Availability

I am generally available evenings and weekends. Daytime availability is very limited and best booked in advance.

3.
Submit Your Request

You can either fill out my booking form or email me directly! I love courteous requests that come with great introductions.

Book Your Erotic Adventure

Why Choose Me, Erin Black, for Your Ultimate Tease & Denial Experience in Chicago?

Tease and denial sessions have been a specialty of mine for a long time, and I’ve honed my skill and craft to make sure your experience will not only be intensely sexy and unforgettable, but also safe. I have access to some of the best play spaces Chicago has to offer, so your experience will completely separate you from anything you’d consider “day-to-day”. 

My experience also allows me to guide you through new sensations while being mindful of your boundaries and limits (and whether or not I should push them).  Maintaining excitement and arousal through new and often intense sensations is a balancing act that I’ve perfected, and there’s nothing more that I love than hearing what an amazing time you had with me when all is said and done. 

While certain SEO terms like “kinky escort” or “sensual domination” may have brought you here, I don’t consider myself either of those things. What I offer is a unique experience that is unhindered by the traditional limitations that come with being either an escort or a professional dominatrix. My time in both of those worlds over the years has been extremely valuable, as both require very specific skills and knowledge. For me personally all of those skills combined allow me to know whether you need a soft touch or a firm hand in order to experience as much pleasure as possible on as many levels as possible.

The experience I offer is for those seeking something different from what they’re accustomed to. Whether that be something more refined and erotic, or something more strict and controlled, I love sessions that allow us both to fully express our genuine wants and needs. 

Experience Ultimate Tease & Denial with Erin Black in Chicago

Do you crave the release that comes from allowing someone else to completely control your pleasure, whether that’s pushing you to the edge and back or teaching you to experience pleasure in completely new ways? 

Do you love how arousing and titillating it can be to have your orgasms completely controlled by someone else, and the frustration that comes along with that?

Are you ready to place your erotic desires into my skilled hands? 

If you’re ready, then make sure to fill out my booking form to get in touch. Then, get ready to embrace your desires and step into a world filled with teasing, submission, and denied gratification.

Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in Kinky GFE, sensual domination, chastity, tease and denial, gender-based play, BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences.

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