Decorum

Folks who see me are generally successful, interesting, and intelligent folks over the age of 21 who enjoy unique experiences.

I don’t discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, religious affiliation, size, or ability.

If you require specific accommodations, please let me know. My domestic private incall is not wheelchair accessible and is up three flights of stairs. The dungeon spaces where I can host are more accommodating.

I adore spending time with all types of folks, including women, couples, trans folks, genderqueer/non-binary folks. If you’re a couple, both parties will need to submit screening information and there’s a 50% additional fee.

I am newbie-friendly, and don’t require references. You will, however, have to submit to a little more scrutiny via work verification information. It’s all relatively painless and easy, I promise.

To put it bluntly, no.

These days I’m truly only interested in seeing folks who are into more taboo/kinky experiences and that’s where my passions really lie.

You don’t have to be kink-identified per se, but having an open mind an in interest in kink is definitely required to see me. I don’t care how much experience you have, and you can be a complete beginner! I love newbies to kink/fetish/BDSM.

If you’re looking for a traditional GFE escort, there are lots of other providers out there.

Nope, sure don’t. Like I said above, if you’re looking for an encounter that does not involve BDSM/Kink/Fetish themes, then we aren’t a match. There are tons of wonderful providers out there who offer what you’re looking for.

I am generally available during the week from 5-9pm, or on the weekends from 11am-9pm. I can also make time during the day, should I have ample notice.

I do require at least 72 hours notice for booking.

I have access to two beautiful dungeon spaces that are centrally located in Chicago (10 and 20 minutes from downtown). There is an additional cost for dungeon rental of $90/hr.

I’m also happy to meet you for an outcall in The Loop/Downtown area of Chicago or in Evanston for no additional fee.  If you want to see me in Rosemont, near O’Hare, Schaumburg, or Oak Park, there will be an additional fee of $100-$200 for travel time.

My favorite activities are pretty wide and varied, so here they are in no particular order:

• Sensual domination
• Strap-on/pegging
• Prostate massage
• Anal play/fisting (and i have the sling to prove it)
• Chastity/Keyholding
• Orgasm control/edging
• Face sitting/smothering
• Corporal punishment/impact play
• Sensory deprivation/overload
• Duos with Addy Finch & Roxanne Dupri,
•  Light bondage/cuffs/collars
• CBT

Lots of things, honestly.

I’m an awesome tour guide and full of random knowledge. Pairing wine with our dinner comes a close second, and I’m an excellent cocktail picker and maker.

I’m not afraid to get into political conversations, but I’d suggest against it and will probably move the conversation elsewhere if our opinions fork too harshly.

Privately, I’m particularly good at getting you to relax, unwind, and leave the thinking portions of our time together to me. My body is soft and strong, and I love to be touched, massaged, and loved on. Mutual pleasure is paramount.

I’m adept at knowing what you want before you do, and my empathy runs deep. I’m always up for an adventure, and romantically taboo fun is right up my alley.

There are a few reasons you shouldn’t see me, the biggest one being that you’re not actually into women or women’s bodies. If you’re not into body hair, you’re better off elsewhere too.

If you’re looking for someone who’s a submissive in any form, I’m honestly not sure how you wound up here.

Most folks have limitations, and I’m no different. Below are activities I don’t engage in:

• Vanilla or non-kinky experiences
• Submitting
• Bottoming 
• Brown/roman/ruby showers
• Unprotected vaginal/anal penetration
• Humiliation surrounding body type, ethnicity, gender identity, or sexual orientation
• Rudeness of any sort
• Poor hygiene
• Listening to you brag about how many homes you own/your private jet/yacht/etc. without being tipped/gifted appropriately.

Please don’t contact me if you’re unwilling to respect these boundaries.

I adore people who are gregarious, warm, friendly, and enjoy connecting during our time together. If you’re not into that, even in the slightest, I’d suggest you look for companionship elsewhere.

Generally speaking I do not.

Unless your session is specifically built around a specific clothing/material fetish (latex, stockings, lingerie, etc) I will wear something sexy and appropriate for the time we will be spending together.

If money is no object and you want me to wear something specific, I have a $300 wardrobe request fee. Any items I do not already own will have to be sponsored by you, too.

Cash is always preferred, but electronic payments via Venmo, CashApp, Zelle, or Bitcoin are happily accepted.

How kind of you! I do have a wish list, and it can be found here.

I am also preparing for a 500-mile bike ride. I’m funding a new bike for the venture, and also new gear! If you’d like to help out the cause, you can do so here.

I am, however, horribly practical and trying to fund a certificate program tuition, so in lieu of gifts, I’d by far appreciate tips. Tips can be given in cash during our date or via CashApp ($owlandamethyst) or Venmo (@owlandamethyst)

While neither are expected, they do certainly make you memorable.

I do indeed. All new friends are required to pay a 50% deposit via Venmo/Cashapp/Zelle. I no longer accept Paypal from new friends, and only accept it from current friends.

Should you cancel for any reason at any time, any deposit made is non-refundable. Should you cancel less than 6 days in advance,  the rest of my date fee is required at the time of cancellation.

I absolutely understand that life happens and that you may need to reschedule our time. If this is our first time meeting,  I offer one reschedule within the same month of the original scheduled date.  I’m very big on first impressions, and when I book with you, I arrange my schedule completely around our date.

My definition of rescheduling is “changing the day of our date with ample notice before the day of our date.” If you cancel our date and then wish to see me at a future unknown time, that is not a rescheduling; that ‘s a separate date that requires 50% deposit and remaining payment upon meeting, just like any other date.

I take my bookings very seriously and only see a select number of people per month. When I commit to time with you, I tell others “no”.

I am fully vaccinated and still wearing masks in crowded/enclosed spaces.

To be totally honest, I’m handling it just like most everyone else is—I’m wearing a mask, limiting my contact with the public, washing my hands a ton, and sanitizing surfaces in my incall more frequently. Being in this line of work means I have to be overly concerned with my health anyway, so my personal and professional protocol has been to get tested after any new partner. I’m also limiting the number of new folks I see in any given month.

Yep, you do. There’s no getting around it. If you’re not comfortable with my screening requirements, we aren’t a match and I suggest finding a companion who’s screening requirements are more in line with your needs.

Truth be told, I prefer our time be kept between us. I’m not a huge fan of review culture, and that’s reflected by the number of reviews I’ve collected over the past 10+ years.

I do have reviews listed on The Erotic Review, but you have to be a member to read all the details. If you want to submit a review, please let me know ahead of time so I know to expect it.