Specialties

When was the moment you realized your desires were different?

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When was the moment you realized that “ordinary” wasn’t a word that would ever describe your passions? Those desires that quicken your pulse, redden your cheeks, and dilate your pupils, among other things— I know them well. I share in your proclivities, but from the opposite side of the spectrum, you see.

I’ve been pursuing my dominant tendencies since the tender age of 18, and decided to pursue pleasure professionally as a Mistress and Dominatrix starting at at the end of my 26th year. You might say my desires have become more specific as I’ve aged, and I have a feeling yours may have as well. It’s how I became a strap-on, pegging, and anal play expert.

...and you'll feel every inch of my expertise.

Interests

What I’m known for is anal play of all sorts—strap-on, pegging, fisting, anal stretching, you get the idea. But I also have a penchant for other areas of BDSM and kinky exploration! Click the headings below to find out more.

Anal Play

I didn’t become Chicago’s Anal Expert for nothing!  I love showing people the wonder that is anal play. Anal stretching, putting you in my sling, you name it. This goes along with strap-on/pegging/fisting, and is normally how I warm you up.

Body Worship

I love having every inch of me adored, and I expect you to take  getting the job done very seriously. Whether its sucking my toes or giving me a full body massage, I expect that you're ready to earn every new place I allow you to kiss or touch... only when I say you can, of course.

 

Bondage

Functional bondage is where my interests lie, and I use a multitude of methods to keep you restrained and immobile. Full encasement via sacks and plastic wrap mummification are also forms of bondage i thoroughly enjoy.

Bossy/Dominant Girlfriend Experience

I'm very particular about the way I like things, and I expect you to deliver whenever you're in my presence. Whether we're on a dinner date (if I even accept your invitation), or you're learning about what type of pleasure I enjoy, you'll be absolutely aware of what I want. 

Be prepared to not have any say, if this is what you're looking for. I will take what I want from you, how I want.

Chastity/Orgasm Control

Deny your dick and make your life better. 

Chastity is a particular favorite of mine, especially when in the form of self-improvement. Your pleasure and your orgasm belong to me, and you'll only be able to experience those things when I deem it appropriate. 

If you require motivation to make changes in your life, drop bad habits, or complete tasks, the reward of pleasure can be an excellent motivator. I particularly enjoy long-term arrangements for chastity. Orgasm control, on the other hand, can be easily played with in the short-term.

Corporal Punishment/Impact Play

There’s a sadist in me that doesn’t often get an opportunity to play, so if you’re into corporal punishment, be ready.

Corporal punishment sessions can run the gamut from introductory light sessions to full on "no safe word" style experiences. 

I have a large assortment of floggers, canes, paddles, and other disciplinary tools of the trade, and can make sure you leave unmarked or completely destroyed.

Couples Coaching

Are you looking to add BDSM dynamic into your relationship but aren't sure where to start? I love helping couples incorporate all sorts of activities into their private lives. 

I also love coaching/showing one or both halves of the couple how to perform certain activities like prostate play, fisting, certain types of restraints, and impact play on each other safely.

Doubles

I session with fantastic people here in Chicago and from around the US. If you're interested in a duo/double session, let me know and I'm happy to make suggestions.

Electro Play

Neon wands, TENS units. The sensation that electro play creates is unlike any other. The sting of the wand and the muscle contractions of the TENS unit can be used in interesting ways to create all sorts of feeling that you'd never think possible.

Fisting

There are few things that turn me on like seeing my fist engulfed by someone else's body.

If you have experience with large insertions, then you may be able to take my fist, but be aware— my hands are large.  

If you are new to fisting, either anal or vaginal, and want to be trained to take my fist, that can certainly be arranged! You'll have your work cut out for you though, so be prepared to work. 

Face Sitting

Want my ass on your face, restricting your breathing and becoming your whole world? I'll gladly take a seat. 

Gender-Based Play

Are you looking to experiment with your gender presentation? Perhaps a makeover, or a fashion show is in order! Of course, none of this is necessary and you’re free to present however you’re most comfortable when you’re with me. I love cross-dressers as well!

Please do understand that unless the scene is very specific and to my liking, I do not participate in sissification that demeans women.

Prostate Massage

How cruel that evolution saw fit to put one of the most erogenous zones inside your asshole!

Honestly though, its not cruel at all, and I can walk you through the pleasures of discovering prostate massage. I've been giving men full-body prostate orgasms for over a decade, and chances are I can get you there, too.

Sensory Deprivation

Blindfolds, headphones, a zentai suit. A full padded hood, a leather sack, completely encased.

There are many ways to lose one or many of your senses, and you’ll be amazed how the senses you get to keep fight to make up for the ones you've lost.

Sensual Domination

Do you crave being overtaken and made to beg through more sensual and psychological means? Do you love being dominated by strong, forceful women but aren't interested in pain or degradation?

Domination comes in all forms, and sensual domination can indeed create those deep feelings of lust, want, and dedication as well as any other form.

Sounding

Urethral dilation, or sounding, can be incredibly pleasurable! The urethra is full of very sensitive nerve endings, and I’ve got the tools to make you feel every single one.

Note that this is only offered to people with penises.

Strap-on/Pegging

Want to be bent over and taken advantage of? Love feeling a powerful woman between your legs, taking what belongs to her?

I love taking people of all genders and orientations for a journey into the pleasures of sensual strap-on. Whether we’re on the bed or in my sling, it’ll be an experience you won’t soon forget!

Tickling

Tickling, for me, is normally such a joyful and powerful release. There’s nothing like being able to laugh until you cry!

Tickling can also evolve into tickle torture depending on how intense I decide to be.

Water Sports

There’s something very primal and feral about piss play. Open wide. Drink directly from me. Maybe I’ll make you take it from a glass first, or somewhere on your body before blessing your mouth.

It can be difficult to find the time and space to indulge ourselves in what we need the most. To indulge in those outlets that keep us balanced and allow our personal pressure valves to be released. I’d guess you’re so driven in other areas of life that you often neglect to carve out space and time for yourself and your desires. The ache you feel from not having what you so clearly need gets overwhelming, doesn’t it? The sweet relief that comes from not having control for some; the excitement in having a play partner who doesn’t have to feign interest for others.

Believe me, I know how hard it is to cultivate relationships where you can openly express yourself and ask for what you so desperately crave. It’s hard to be vulnerable with those who may not be interested, and sometimes terrifying to reveal your deepest, most taboo desires to those closest to you.
Perhaps your home life is in most ways wonderful, but you can’t seem to scratch this particular itch within those confines. Maybe you keep these desires a secret for yourself, and can only indulge them separately.

Are you here to revel in the hedonistic?

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So, what's my forté, you ask? It's getting the most out of you.

If I’ve struck a chord or hit a nerve, then you’ve found yourself in the right place.
After a few years of being a professional mistress and dominatrix, I ventured to bend the definition of what it meant to be dominant. I never truly identified as a dominatrix— it’s a word that was often too loaded with formality for my tastes. 

What I am is a Top, a Fetishist, a strap-on, anal play, and pegging expert. I’m an indulgent BBW hedonist who loves to have her body worshiped in all the ways you want to worship. What this means for you is that I’m playfully and powerfully in charge,  and know exactly what it takes to push you over pleasure’s edge.

Whether you’re a novice who’s just learned the pleasures of anal play, a fellow hedonist who loves to be overtaken by a powerful and creative woman, or an expert who can take even the biggest Bad Dragon toys, I’m here to help you explore and push your boundaries.

Discover what lies on the other side of your edge.

Are you ready to push your limits? Then, your safe word is "Dow Jones Industrial Average".

Most folks simply hope for what they want.
Not you, though. You get what you want.

My Summer Availability:

5-9pm, Monday-Friday
11-9pm Saturday and Sunday
I do require 72hr+ notice for all bookings.

I occasionally have daytime availability during the week! If you’re a current friend, please reach out via text message or direct email.

If we have not met before, please fill out my booking form for consideration.

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